I look at the way we are conditioned with regard to feeling lust and our sexuality and it makes me wonder “why?” I ask myself why we are conditioned in a way that makes us feel uncomfortable about something that’s a natural biological function. I also wonder why we’ve been conditioned in a way that we feel it’s not an acceptable part of our needs unless certain conditions are put on it.
There is not one person in this world who will never feel horny or lust for someone, it’s just as natural as becoming tired, hungry, or thirsty. We don’t really put many conditions on what is acceptable to eat, who we can eat with, what food we can desire and it is perfectly acceptable to say “mmmm, I could really go for some sushi right now” out loud in public, but it’s not acceptable to say “mmmm I could go for a nice piece of ass right now”. It is perfectly acceptale to say “excuse me, I have to go to the bathroom” but it’s not acceptable to say “excuse me, I need to masturbate”.
Our expression surrounding this basic primal need has been seriously limited because of societal conditioning. Lust for example is something we’re always going to experience and we cannot control who or what we lust for. Does this mean we’re all going to run around having affairs? No. If we recognize and accept that lust does it mean more rapes are going to happen? No. It’s unrealistic to think that lust can only happen and is only acceptable in committed relationships and it’s also unrealistic to think that the expression of lust has to have emotional implications tied to it, or that those conditions must be fulfilled for you to be a “decent person”
Realistically, we are ALL going to be attracted to and feel lust for numerous people in our lives whether or not we are in a relationship with someone. Does it mean that we have to go fuck that person or have a relationship with them? No, it doesn’t. It also doesn’t mean that we have to completely shut ourselves off from the lust we feel, it’s healthier to just express it in a non personal way….just like when you feel hungry you’ll say “ugh, I’m so hungry” and grab a snack, it’s just as natural and healthy to say “fuck, I’m horny” and fantasize about someone other than your wife or boyfriend. I do realize this post will offend many, and I’m cool with that because I’m just trying to raise awareness on how our conditioning has limited us. Issues such as rape and child molestation would not be so prevelant if we were not so limited with how we express our lust and we had better outlets. Why do you think Sex and Porn are the most searched for words on the internet? It’s because we lack in our expression of this basic primal urge.
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